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The D Files: Never Send A Man To Do A Boy’s Job

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

By Letty Livingston

Greetings faithful readers and newbies alike! So, last week yoLetty 2u got a feel for what may unfold here in The D Files. You’ve had a glimpse at the cast of characters that were in the previous edition and those who are going to pop up along the way. It starts off as a juicy, chocolate-covered, mystery-laden story of sex, lust, disappointment, and despair. It also taps into what makes us, as women, unique and connected, and hopefully winds up restoring our faith in what makes us strong and able to keep striving for our dreams!

Keep up with who’s who and what’s happening each Tuesday. Once you are hooked, be sure to let your girlfriends know about it by sharing the link with your address book, your Facebook friends, and your Twitter followers. Be sure to keep up with the story, because some real twists and turns are going to happen very soon. (Hint, hint)

As far as what’s going on right now in the real world, it has FINALLY stopped snowing here in Philadelphia. We’ve had over fifty inches already this winter and I have had it. I am ready to book a flight to Miami and do some sun worshiping. If anyone has a condo or a timeshare that has an ocean view, email me and let me know if I can use it. I am SOOOOO over all of this white winter weather! UGGGGG!

On another note: Is it just me? Did anyone else have numerous jaw-dropping moments while watching the winter Olympics last week? Some of those women (and men) are just absolutely incredible. I was amazed at how tough they are, and it has inspired my workouts at the gym. I am working so much harder in spinning class, and my kickboxing class is no longer kicking my butt. These women inspired me, bringing back memories of my childhood and being inspired to ice skate by Dorothy Hamel. I am glad I still have that spirit in me and hope that you dig deep and challenge yourself in ways that you didn’t think were possible. You can do it!!

Now onto this chapter of The D Files: It is summertime, and it is about the support and nourishment of women and womanhood—about bringing one of our own children into our adult group of friends and ensuring that our circle of trust remains relevant and strong. Of course, there are sexy men and some tense moments, but nothing we can’t handle, even if it is by the skin of our teeth.

Read on, and be sure to send your questions and comments to me at help@letlettyhelp.com

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Tuesday Confessional

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

Remember that secret—the one that’s so humiliating, so shameful, or so wicked—that you dare not share it with anyone? Recall that fantasy that only exists within the realm of you mind? Or what about that regret that you just can’t seem to shake off? Bring back that funny experience that can only be told in whispers. And remember that sin that haunts you day after day? Well, cleanse your soul with Tuesday Confessional. We anonymously post your confessions, secrets, erotic fantasies, fears, humiliations, guilty pleasures, hidden feelings, evil thoughts—anything you want to reveal! Send your confessions to TrueConfessionsMagazine@yahoo.com and get it off your chest! And don’t forget to check in every Tuesday for your dose of Tuesday Confessional!

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“I love my husband but I find myself constantly imagining making love to someone else when I’m with him.”

“Sometimes I pretend I’m a single woman. I have friends that don’t even know I’m married and have three children.”

“I’m happy I became sick, because if I never did, I wouldn’t see how important life really is and I would have never changed my ways.”

“I love my best friend. I know we can’t be together but I don’t think I’ll be able to get over him because we have such a great connection—I’d rather love him and be frustrated, than find someone else and not feel so great around him.”

“My mother is so evil, sometimes I wish she would get sick and pass away so I wouldn’t have to deal with her anymore.”

“Every Thursday I tell my husband I’m going to see a therapist, when really I’m having private yoga sessions with a hot male instructor.”

-Anonymous Confessions

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He Came To Say Good-Bye

Monday, March 8th, 2010

My fifteen-year-old brother-in-law was a cute, vivacious teenager full of charisma and fun. He loved to tweak my nose whenever he was around me, no matter where we were. Of all my brothers-in-law, he was my favorite. He had a lot of friends and was well liked by everyone that came in contact with him.

One afternoon my brother-in-law came over to borrow our car in order to go out with his friends. Much later on in the night, a phone call from my father-in-law woke us up. My brother-in-law had been in an accident and was taken to the hospital. My husband went to the hospital to see him. I stayed home with our two small sons who were sleeping, oblivious to what was happening. Upon his return, my husband sadly informed me that my brother-in-law had passed away on his way to the hospital. I felt a sudden sadness upon hearing the tragic news and quietly remembered him from the first time I met him. I knew that I was going to miss him terribly. I felt a void in my heart that began to hurt.

All the students from my brother-in-law’s high school attended his funeral, as well as many other friends of the family and relatives, making the procession to the cemetery incredibly long. After an emotional day, we retired for the evening in hopes of much needed sleep.

In the wee hours of the morning the day after his funeral, dogs barking from the surrounding orchard woke me. I felt a sensation on my nose, as if someone had tweaked it, and my nose got icy-cold even though it was a warm night. I turned on the light and woke my husband. I told him that someone must’ve been outside because the dogs had been barking loudly. I also told him that my nose felt ice-cold. He touched it and was amazed at how cold it felt.

“It’s your brother coming to say good-bye,” I told my husband.

I felt better knowing that he came to tell me that he was all right where he was. Although my brother-in-law has been gone for quite some time, it seems like it was only yesterday that I last saw him. He remains in my heart to this day.

—Josie Ruiz, California

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