Graduation

May 30th, 2010 By Jane | 1 Comment »

I haven’t been talking about saving money lately, so let’s do that. I recently graduated (Two days ago) college, which means I had get myself together for graduation. This means nail painting, hair styling, and purchasing new clothes.

This is how I went about the whole business: (It was only slightly tortuous.) I splurged on a dress from Roni, (An Nyc shop) $150.00. This dress required a belt for it to appear it’s best, so instead of purchasing a belt for $50 that I would wear, what three times, I ran to a fabric shop and got myself a thin spool of ribbon for $2.67.

When I called around to various nail salons, I found out that it would cost nearly $50 for a manicure & pedicure. I initially thought it’s graduation, a little pampering won’t hurt, but one must remain realistic about these things. Because that pampering will hurt at the end of the month when the mailman hands over the pampering bill. So, I purchased my own nail polish for $3.99,  soaked my feet in the tub, and made my own toes attractive. It was actually quite relaxing since the part of my brain that usually moves from one thing to the next, had one focus only, and it being a simple task, it was vacation from the thinking.

When it was time for the hair I called Maria Bonita, a salon that I invariably turn to for special occasions, and booked an appointment for a blow-out for $45.00.

(I have a decent variety of shoes, so I didn’t have to worry about that. Thank goodness.)

In total, new outfit and look: (My hair is usually curly.) $201.66. It’s not bad considering how put together I looked. The trick is to spend where you need to, and not to spend when you don’t, or when creativity would be an even better option, do that.

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Frenemy

May 29th, 2010 By Jane | No Comments »

Frenemy. What does this clever play on words mean? A frenemy is some one who poses as a well intentioned friend, yet, beneath all of the false giggling that person is on one team, theirs.

The goal of a frenemy is to take you down. No, I don’t mean they want you dead, they are simply in a -who’s better – competition with you. Your best interests are not an issue, and they never were. A frenemy does not belong in the circle of trust. (Yip, I’m referring to ‘Meet The Parents,’ that was a good line.)

The unfortunate part about this concept is that frenemies  reveal themselves in a slow manner, when they have already gained trust, so that when they act out, it’s nearly unnoticed. You think, O she didn’t mean it in that way, you gift her the benefit of the doubt. This may sound like soap opera business, but I assure you, it exists.

The up-side to this ordeal is that the ratio of frenemies to good people is comforting.  Well, at least I like to believe that their is a larger population of good persons than those other types.

How to detect such people? Well, for one thing, this person is going to want to best friend you. They are going to find things in common with you, whether these qualities are real or make-believe. (Keep your friends close, and enemies closer, this is true.)

This person will also want to be friends with your inner circle, and who ever you’re dating or married to.  And this is where the trouble will usually commence. This person will flirt with who ever you’re with, she might even take your man from you. And she will start rumors about you  in one fashion or other, but it’ll be subtle, very subtle. She may “forget” to rely important messages to you, or “forget” to extend an invitation to a social gathering.  A frenemy will reveal themselves in a number of varieties, but the one common characteristic to this type of person is that they are selfish, alarmingly so. It’s not the type of thing they can hide forever.

How to deal with a frenemy? Well, be cordial treat her like an acquaintance, cuz it’s likely you will have a run in with her again, no life is perfect. You don’t want to give them a reason to pay extra attention to you, but please for cheese sakes, do not give them any inside information about yourself, even if it’s news about promotion. The good news will produce jealousy, and you don’t want that bad energy around you.

When she wants to get together, you’ll be so busy you hardly have time to breath. And this problem, will fizzle away on it’s own.

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Powerhouse

May 25th, 2010 By admin | No Comments »

I am sure that your mouths are watering for the rest of the players in the Powerhouse novella. For those of you who aren’t exactly sure what a novella is, think of it in the same light as your daytime soaps. The D Files and the story of Bea that has come to the surface is a fine example of a novella that you simply must follow.

Here is some great news: The D Files is moving to national print in the wonderfully entertaining True Romance magazine. You have time to get your subscription now in order to get your next episode of The D Files, which is tapping into Bea’s search for Sam.

Powerhouse will be the new novella taking the place of The D Files here on the MTLS web site. You can get a new fix of it each week, right here on your favorite site for romance: My True Love Story dot com. Now, on to the supporting cast of Powerhouse: They are all mid-level supervisors in an actual Powerhouse in New York City. Each will play an integral part in the storyline. Some will fall in love and others will fall into the hands of treachery. Some will wind up being good guys, and others are bad guys that you wouldn’t want visiting your nightmares.

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