Ladies, stop fixing yourselves sugar milk in the A.M., and start drinking the good stuff. (Coffee.) In other words, turn off the cruise control and wake it up.
Once the crusties are cleared from left eye, then right, there will be just enough awareness to spot the number of symptoms that accompany infidelity. That’s right, infidelity, that thing. No worries, it happens to the best of us.
Intuition: Do not turn off the sixth sense, a trail of smoke equals fire. When eye contact isn’t met, when “I love you baby,” isn’t said anymore, when tone of voice does not match an emotion that one is claiming to have, there may be a problem.
Erratic Phone/Text/E-mail Behavior: When in a relationship one learns anothers’scommunication habits. If there are any lasting sudden changes to communication such as: not taking your calls when he usually does, not responding to texts, taking his phone with him to the restroom when showering (I’ve done it.), cutting off conversations when you enter the room, then there may be a problem.
Sex: When the sex is less, that means the sex is less. When the sex is no more, there are two common possibilities: he’s sleeping with someone else and can’t do it with you due to guilt, or “he’s just not that into you.” Yeah, these are definite problems.
Gifts: We all know that cards and gifts come in bulk when love is in the new. When cards and gifts come in bulk after a relationship has found it’s niche, you may have a great man on your hands. If cards and gifts come in bulk because a husband or boyfriend is MIA, ah guilty much? There may be a problem.
This stuff is never enjoyable. But it’s best to deal with it, so that life can return to happiness, with or without the weaker link.
